Early marriages and my silly thoughts!

I thought an early marriage possibly will ruin my career and my….life…But, now I feel, there’s nothing wrong in EARLY MARRIAGES and all…Yaar…I can feel the charm n glow in my parents’ faces and even his parents are too exited and happy for their son. Can't disappoint them.
After a long time, I got an example too…India’s star sportsman DHONI tied the knot with his 21- year- old love Sakshi last Sunday night, somewhere in Dehradun. Only few khaas people were invited to the traditional ceremony. I too will do the same ;)
So, when Sakshi can, why can't I? I shall continue my studies afterwards and..of course there is no doubt on him that he won't permit me for ny job or something like that.
I got it! Oh! I mean, a new cover story idea. “Early marriages and career”. But not having time to write one… So, copy pasting is okay for me! As usual. :)

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